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Looking Forward to a Small Community Someday

Yesterday was a great day, and I’ve been thinking last night and this morning about why it was so great. We spent the morning at the local library, reading books and playing toys in their awesome children’s section. The librarian on duty was incredible useful, chatty, and friendly! She even let us check out books on her card so my kids could plow through a dozen books while we are in Moab for the week. I watched her greet many patrons by name, and she obviously recognized and new many of the locals.

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After a bit of conversation, she mentioned there was a community, Disney musical review being performed at the local high school that night and we should go! I heartily agreed, so after dinner we packed up the kids and headed to town to support the local theater community. The musical was adorable! Great costumes, fun songs, and some really impressive talent by both adults, teenagers and children.

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Between the community here in Moab (5,100 people), and the slightly larger town of Prescott, AZ (40,000 people) we’ve realized we really do want to live in a smaller community. A place where you recognize people at the library or community center and there is a sense of pride in where you live. In addition to living in a community, I’ve also realized I  want to be involved in the community. I want my kids to sing, do theater or choir at the high school and generally be involved. So while I’m enjoying our nomad status now, I’m definitely starting to see the first inklings of desire to settle in and build out a life with a little more roots.

Not yet though. There’s still so much left to see!

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Mommy Diaries

Need More “Me” Time – Any Ideas?

IMG_1928-EditI’ll admit that life can get a little rough sometimes around here. Most days between road school, cooking, laundry, exploring, cleaning up, and managing daily life I rarely get any “me” time. I viciously guard my 30-40 minutes of exercise everyday since that is my one time I get to plug my earphones in and tune out the rest of the world. Other days I’ll listen to my audio book while cooking dinner, or sneak in 30 minutes of reading while the kids play the tablet, but that’s about it.

To keep from burning out, there definitely needs to be a little more solo time in there. I know Sam doesn’t get enough alone time either (work doesn’t count) and its a difficult balance to develop and maintain. We tend to over correct when I get a little (okay, a lot) grumpy, but I think an overall better balance would be much nicer!

I have so many ideas and thoughts running around in my head, plus photos to edit, YouTube videos to create, social media to mange and other projects that are just waiting for me to have a little time. The little free time I’ve had so far this week was swallowed up in balancing our proverbial check book and making sure we’d have enough money in our checking account to pay the bills. Exciting? Not so much.

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So, I’m looking for suggestions? What do you do to help manage your time and get everything done? I mentioned my dilemma to a friend last week over email, saying that maybe I should rely a little more on the television babysitter (our kids rarely watch any tv at all). She suggested that maybe if they were watching something educational I wouldn’t feel so guilty about an hour and a half of veg time. Thoughts? Favorite educational shows for kids on Netflix?

I’d love a couple of hours a week to sit down and just work. Pound out blog posts, edit my thousands of photos, manage our social media accounts, and just get ahead. No, our blog doesn’t generate money yet, but I’d like it to and the only way that will happen is if we put some decent time into it.

I know this is a constant struggle for moms everywhere, not just those of us on the road in tiny houses. Please share any suggestions you have in the comments below!

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Arizona Mommy Diaries

I Freak Out in Phoenix & One of My Big Mistakes

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Last year when we came through Phoenix, we only spent 3 days at Usery Regional Park. We knew there were a few other parks in the area that other traveling friends loved, but we couldn’t get in as they were ALL full! Every day. Ridiculous. Since we were on a mission to get to Disneyland, it wasn’t a big deal and we figured we’d just hit them next time around.

This year when we were making up our travel schedule I was bound and determined to visit ALL the parks near Phoenix so we made reservations. Careful, laid out plans that would still get us to Flagstaff in time to meet up with friends for their spring break. We didn’t want to be in a hurry, so I booked 6 days at Lost Dutchman State Park, 5 days at Usery Regional, and a full 7 days at McDowell Mountain. We would be “close” to Phoenix, splash pads, rock climbing centers, Costco, grocery stores, the Science Museum and friends and family. We would get caught up on EVERYTHING, take it easy and just re-group for the time we were there.

Looking back, I have no idea what I was thinking. What in our traveling style to this point convinced me we could spend almost 3 weeks practically in the same place and not go crazy?

And go crazy I did. I partly blame the weather (up near 90 degrees which is hot even for Arizona this time of year), and partly my mind set. I was determined to be IN Phoenix, and only VISIT the parks we were staying at. My frustration mounted as I realized that we weren’t “close” to anything! Friends were a good 45 minutes away, the Science Museum almost an hour, Costco was even a good 25 minutes. We weren’t near anything and the more I pushed to go out and explore the city, the more frustrated I became.

Talking together, Sam and I had an epiphany of sorts. We needed to be IN Lost Dutchman State Park, and only VISIT Phoenix. Sure, drive into the city one day, visit the Science Center and run all my errands. The rest of the time needed to be spent in the park! Letting the kids explore, hiking, and enjoying the beautiful view of the Superstition Mountains. That was more our speed, and typical of our traveling lifestyle anyway.

Once I made the mental switch, I immediately became more calm. We weren’t here to be in the city – cities can be enjoyed from fancy hotels that are downtown. We needed to enjoy what the state park had to offer and be content. Which we did, and Lost Dutchman State Park has now hit my list of favorite places.

We’ve now cancelled the remainder of our reservations, will save McDowell Mountain for “next time” and are headed north to escape the heat this early summer has brought on. We’ve always joked that if we have to use our air conditioner we are in the wrong spot, and we are now committing to the theory despite earlier plans. It’s taken me a few days to come to peace with this decision (haven’t gone rock climbing! The mountain biking at McDowell Mountain is supposed to be amazing!) but I’m also excited about the destinations and plans we’ve made instead.

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Attempting Some Sort of a Schedule

IMG_20150113_145916We are really fly-by-the-seat-of-our-pants kind of people. While we generally have routines for our days, we haven’t been strict at all. If there was something fun to go do, we did it. School for the kids was pretty loose and flexible. Some days we did a lot, some days we did none. This type of “schedule” has worked great for the last year or so, but lately I’ve been wanting slightly more structure to our days.

Mostly so I can have a regular time to exercise.

Selfish? Possibly.

Many people ask how I get any “me” time in. The short answer is that I don’t. Not really. Home school supervising in the morning, breakfast, lunch, activities outside in the afternoon, laundry, grocery shopping, dinner, and then finally blogging after the kids are in bed is a pretty full schedule. While there are hobbies and other interests I have put aside for now, I really need my workouts. Both for physical and mental reasons. I’ve posted a few times about exercising on the road (here and here), but the short is I have fallen in love with Beach Body workouts and Shakeology. I just needed a regular time to get it done.

My solution?

I bought a cheap paper planner from Target.

Gasp.

I know, right? PAPER. Inspired by a friend, I also purchased a colored pen for each person. Along with the purchase, came the excitement and encouragement to schedule our days a little better. My planner has three objectives: Meal Planning, Home School Record Keeping, and Workout Accountability. That’s it. Super simple and so far, I love it!

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We do school first thing after breakfast (usually starting around 8:30am) and I’ve designated 11am as “Recess” aka “Mommy work out time” and they have to leave me alone for 30 minutes and just play outside. After that I can mix up my shake, take a shower and we have lunch around noon.

We also designated a specific day of the week for certain subjects that we’ll do all together. Writing on Monday & Friday, Family Fitness & Science on Tuesday, Unit Study on Wednesday, and Geography on Thursday. By doing these all together, we’ll actually DO them, and I won’t feel so much pressure to come up with a science lesson at the drop of the hat.

We’ve also designated Saturday as “Make Up” day for the weeks when we go out exploring together in the middle of the week (which is preferable). If we explore on Tuesday, we’ll just do Tuesdays assignments on Saturday instead.

Yesterday, we finished up our last subject, Science, after lunch and then played games for an hour. It was perfect! The kids also had some tablet time in the afternoon, and I got a blog post written. Other days we could go on bike rides, exploring, or visit a museum in the afternoons.

Will this work everyday? Not likely. There are days will we be moving the house in the morning or days we want to spend all day hiking.  But as I told a friend just the other day, “We seem to work better if we make a plan and then just stay flexible.”

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Mommy Diaries Oregon Washington

Could I Live in the Pacific Northwest?

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Much to my surprise, we have had quite a few people ask us our opinion of the Pacific Northwest (PNW). I think for some people, the PNW is like a mystical dreamland. Plenty of recreation opportunities, beautiful green landcapes, the rolling ocean and coast. It does sound pretty dreamy, right?. These people were thinking of possibly moving there at some point, and were curious what we thought?

Most of our experience revolves around the shoulder season, so while we had some beautiful, sunny days, we also had our fair share of rain and bad weather. We’ve been through Medford, Crater Lake, Bend, Portland, Battle Ground, Mount Rainier, Tacoma, Seattle, Vancouver BC, Whidbey Island, Port Townsend, the Olympic Peninsula, La Push, Astoria, and Lincoln City from the end of August through the end of October. Although foggy and a little drippy, we didn’t run into some serious rain until we hit La Push and the Olympic Peninsula during mid-October. From there I felt like it was a constant downpour down through the Oregon Coast. We did hear from locals that rain that heavy in October was fairly a-typical, although the ranger at Cape Disappointment told me that it was supposed to rain “all winter”. That was not encouraging.

What We Loved:

Coming form living in a high Utah desert, having everything green and lush was definitely a nice change. Tons of old growth, tall trees, beautiful mountains, and lots of diversity in the terrain. The diversity in landscape led to many unique experiences which we couldn’t really find  anywhere else. Two of our favorites were hiking in Silver Falls State Park viewing 10 different waterfalls, and crabbing along the Oregon Coast.

Oregon & Washington State Parks are beautiful, well-kept, and have great camping sites for both tents and RV’s. Oregon Parks have free camp showers, while Washington’s were coin-operated (not expensive but annoying). We also loved visiting the National Parks, although due to weather we had to save the North Cascades National Park for another visit. We had beautiful weather at Crater Lake, and while Mt. Rainier National Park was beautiful, it seems like it always rains there, so I don’t feel that experience was atypical. Whidbey Island was definitely a favorite, and we would love to go back and explore more of it finally make it out to the San Juan Islands.

We absolutely loved the Rogue River Valley, Medford, and Grants Pass, Oregon. In fact, its hit our list as one of two places we would possible want to live once we settle down somewhere. I don’t really consider it the Pacific Northwest, however, as its more Central, Southern Oregon and not very cool and wet. We spent a week there right around Andrew’s birthday when  it was fairly hot, and just recently again for a week in November during the chillier temperatures.

What We Didn’t Love:

The constant rain. Kind of obvious, right? While not a horrendous downpour most of the time, the weather was very overcast and drizzly quite a bit. The biggest mental problem I had was not “wasting” the sunny days.  If the forecast called for even partly cloudy, I felt such pressure to get out and do something while the sun shined as I didn’t know the next time we would see the sun. How annoying.

The mold. After leaving the wet side of Oregon and taking a trip over the mountains to the “dry” side, we realized how much mold we had collected. You guys, my bike shoes were moldy. For reals. Many of our items kept in the back of the truck were covered in mold, as well as some cushions and even our curtains! It was disgusting. We stripped off the curtains and couch cushion covers (back by the kid’s bedroom were the worst offenders), and used Clorox wipes to try and clean up everything else.

Being trapped inside. As one of my friends put it, “If you let the rain stop you, you won’t get anything done.”. I’m pretty sure that is a learned mindset, because all I wanted to do on rainy days was curl up with a book and drink hot chocolate. Turns out, that gets old after 4 days in a row. We just had to outside and do things anyway. Sam had a better attitude about this than I did, and some days for me were better than others. Coming up with indoor activities in a small space  is a lot harder than living in a house and doing the same. There’s just not enough room! Perhaps living in a house would help with this, but I’m not sure I want to commit myself to finding out.

The mess in the Airstream. When everything is wet and muddy outside, you are going to track it indoors. It just happens. Mitigating wet floors, mud, wet shoes, clothes, jackets, and umbrellas is not exactly fun for days on end. Where’s my mud room when I need it? We got really good at pointing our electric heater at a pile of shoes, or clothes hanging outside the wardrobe, and then running our ceiling fans to bring in some cool air fro outside to keep the Airstream from completely overheating. We would also hang jackets and other items in the shower to keep them out of the way, but they never dry as fast in there due to lack of airflow.

Conclusion? While the PNW is absolutely beautiful, and I think everyone at some point in their life should visit, I don’t think we could live there. I simply just crave the sunshine. The weather during the shoulder and winter seasons is too overcast and wet for the activities we like to do, and I think I’d just go crazy!