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Could I Live in the Pacific Northwest?

The Pacific Northwest

Much to my surprise, we have had quite a few people ask us our opinion of the Pacific Northwest (PNW). I think for some people, the PNW is like a mystical dreamland. Plenty of recreation opportunities, beautiful green landcapes, the rolling ocean and coast. It does sound pretty dreamy, right?. These people were thinking of possibly moving there at some point, and were curious what we thought?

Most of our experience revolves around the shoulder season, so while we had some beautiful, sunny days, we also had our fair share of rain and bad weather. We’ve been through Medford, Crater Lake, Bend, Portland, Battle Ground, Mount Rainier, Tacoma, Seattle, Vancouver BC, Whidbey Island, Port Townsend, the Olympic Peninsula, La Push, Astoria, and Lincoln City from the end of August through the end of October. Although foggy and a little drippy, we didn’t run into some serious rain until we hit La Push and the Olympic Peninsula during mid-October. From there I felt like it was a constant downpour down through the Oregon Coast. We did hear from locals that rain that heavy in October was fairly a-typical, although the ranger at Cape Disappointment told me that it was supposed to rain “all winter”. That was not encouraging.

What We Loved:

Coming form living in a high Utah desert, having everything green and lush was definitely a nice change. Tons of old growth, tall trees, beautiful mountains, and lots of diversity in the terrain. The diversity in landscape led to many unique experiences which we couldn’t really find  anywhere else. Two of our favorites were hiking in Silver Falls State Park viewing 10 different waterfalls, and crabbing along the Oregon Coast.

Oregon & Washington State Parks are beautiful, well-kept, and have great camping sites for both tents and RV’s. Oregon Parks have free camp showers, while Washington’s were coin-operated (not expensive but annoying). We also loved visiting the National Parks, although due to weather we had to save the North Cascades National Park for another visit. We had beautiful weather at Crater Lake, and while Mt. Rainier National Park was beautiful, it seems like it always rains there, so I don’t feel that experience was atypical. Whidbey Island was definitely a favorite, and we would love to go back and explore more of it finally make it out to the San Juan Islands.

We absolutely loved the Rogue River Valley, Medford, and Grants Pass, Oregon. In fact, its hit our list as one of two places we would possible want to live once we settle down somewhere. I don’t really consider it the Pacific Northwest, however, as its more Central, Southern Oregon and not very cool and wet. We spent a week there right around Andrew’s birthday when  it was fairly hot, and just recently again for a week in November during the chillier temperatures.

What We Didn’t Love:

The constant rain. Kind of obvious, right? While not a horrendous downpour most of the time, the weather was very overcast and drizzly quite a bit. The biggest mental problem I had was not “wasting” the sunny days.  If the forecast called for even partly cloudy, I felt such pressure to get out and do something while the sun shined as I didn’t know the next time we would see the sun. How annoying.

The mold. After leaving the wet side of Oregon and taking a trip over the mountains to the “dry” side, we realized how much mold we had collected. You guys, my bike shoes were moldy. For reals. Many of our items kept in the back of the truck were covered in mold, as well as some cushions and even our curtains! It was disgusting. We stripped off the curtains and couch cushion covers (back by the kid’s bedroom were the worst offenders), and used Clorox wipes to try and clean up everything else.

Being trapped inside. As one of my friends put it, “If you let the rain stop you, you won’t get anything done.”. I’m pretty sure that is a learned mindset, because all I wanted to do on rainy days was curl up with a book and drink hot chocolate. Turns out, that gets old after 4 days in a row. We just had to outside and do things anyway. Sam had a better attitude about this than I did, and some days for me were better than others. Coming up with indoor activities in a small space  is a lot harder than living in a house and doing the same. There’s just not enough room! Perhaps living in a house would help with this, but I’m not sure I want to commit myself to finding out.

The mess in the Airstream. When everything is wet and muddy outside, you are going to track it indoors. It just happens. Mitigating wet floors, mud, wet shoes, clothes, jackets, and umbrellas is not exactly fun for days on end. Where’s my mud room when I need it? We got really good at pointing our electric heater at a pile of shoes, or clothes hanging outside the wardrobe, and then running our ceiling fans to bring in some cool air fro outside to keep the Airstream from completely overheating. We would also hang jackets and other items in the shower to keep them out of the way, but they never dry as fast in there due to lack of airflow.

Conclusion? While the PNW is absolutely beautiful, and I think everyone at some point in their life should visit, I don’t think we could live there. I simply just crave the sunshine. The weather during the shoulder and winter seasons is too overcast and wet for the activities we like to do, and I think I’d just go crazy!

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Faith

Why are Latter-day Saints so eager to tell me about what they believe and to invite me to learn about their church?

We spent last weekend cuddled up in our Airstream listening to our church leaders and their inspirational messages centered around Jesus Christ. It is always a fulfilling weekend for us, leaving us spiritual uplifted with a renewed determination to be better and do better.

The last address, given Sunday afternoon, took me by surprise. Elder David A. Bednar (always one of my favorite speakers!) started his talk by saying, “My message is directed specifically to individuals who are not members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I will address a fundamental question many of you may have: ‘Why are Latter-day Saints so eager to tell me about what they believe and to invite me to learn about their church?'”

As far as I know, never has a leader of our church spoken so directly, clearly, and beautifully to members of other faiths. I invite you to listen to his answer here on the blog, and then if you are interested see the full text and video of his address on lds.org.

I specifically loved his heart-warming story about their two sons, a band aid, lots of ointment, and a desire to share as a “natural consequence of a most helpful and beneficial personal experience”.

He concludes with his personal testimony, which I absolutely echo and believe with my whole soul, “Absolute truth exists in a world that increasingly disdains and dismisses absolutes. In a future day, “every knee [shall] bow” and “every tongue [shall] confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father” (Philippians 2:10–11). Jesus the Christ absolutely is the Only Begotten Son of the Eternal Father. As members of His Church, we witness He lives and His Church has been restored in its fulness in these latter days.”

As always, we welcome insightful, sincere questions about what we believe and why.

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Musings of Sam

Ditching Suburbia

blog-dsimageWe were recently interviewed by Michael Boyink for his Ditching Suburbia project, and our conversation has led me to a few realizations about our town travel and our motivations to travel.

Many of the travelers that we know, and those interviewed for the same project came to travel because of their dissatisfaction with the typical ‘suburban’ life. We were not unhappy with our life in Lehi, and nothing there ‘drove’ us away. Our desire for travel came by observing what travel did for our family on smaller, more typical trips. In the summer of 2012, we spent 5 weeks away from home on an extended vacation. Our experience opened our eyes to the flexibility that we had, and led us to consider what we could gain for our family with such flexibility. Those thoughts led to a small working vacation in Colorado over New Years at the end of 2012, and ultimately to an extended house-swap in Virginia the second half of 2013.

Our drive to Virginia took 18 days, and again opened our eyes to the effects of travel upon our family. It wasn’t a dissatisfaction with normal life that led us to travel, but a realization that there was something better. Typical suburban life seems to fit the needs of many. What I think is most important is that folks find what works best for them, instead of adopting a lifestyle simply because it seems to be what everybody else does.

I’m excited for the Ditching Suburbia project, and I’m looking forward to seeing the results!

As a side note, we have been following the Boinks on Instagram for months (and they us), and it was amazing how well we have come to know fellow travelers without actually meeting up with them. Social media can be a time suck and should not be a replacement for real-live human interaction, but it has been a powerful tool for us. Seeing both the adventure and struggles of other travelers has given us hope, courage, and even a warning here and there.

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Faith

How to be welcoming at church

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Full-time travel as an active Latter Day Saint family provides us with plenty of experience visiting new congregations. Each week, we walk into a new building, meet new people, and visit new classes. We’ve had all kinds of experiences and we’ve learned a few things about effective ways to welcome people into church. Some of our suggestions are specific to the LDS faith, but I’m sure this can be easily adapted to the particulars of any faith.

Say Hello

Introduce yourself. There are plenty of ways for this, and you’ll likely find ways that are comfortable for you. “Hi, my name is Sam. Are you visiting today?” “I’m not sure I recognize you. My name is Sam.”

Introducing yourself is particularly easy if you happen to find yourself sitting nearby.

It is a fairly common practice in Sunday School and in Priesthood and Relief Society meetings to welcome visitors and ask them to introduce themselves. When this happens, it becomes easier for other members in the meeting to strike up a conversation. Leaders, please don’t forget this. If you’ve been talking to a visitor and are sitting by them, you might find it easy to introduce them to the rest of the group.

During the last 6 months or so, it has become a common practice for the Full-time Missionaries to greet new folks at the door of the chapel just prior to Sacrament Meeting. In one case, we even found ourselves being greeted by the Bishop as we entered the chapel. In these situations, I feel comfortable and at ease.

Guide Them

Visitors are not going to know where different meetings are held. This can be particularly confusing on 5th Sundays or other days with an irregular meeting schedule. Pointing out the location of Sunday School can take the worry away, and even encourage them to stay if they were unsure. If they have kids, point out the direction of the primary room. If you can, walk with them and show them the way.

Visitors unfamiliar with the meeting structure might not even know there are other meetings. Offering to help and guide can help them feel accepted. In one ward, a mother with kids approached after Sacrament Meeting, and asked if they could show the kids where the primary room was.

One time that is frequently forgotten is the transition to Priesthood and Relief Society after Sunday School and after Priesthood opening exercises. Often the next meeting is in the same room, but it helps to know. If you see someone new, or if a visitor is introduced, guide them to the next room after the meeting.

Invite Them

If you are aware of any activities in the following week, invite the visitors to attend. Even if they are traveling, they may still be in town. Even if they can’t attend, they will appreciate the invite. We’ve been invited to after church ‘linger longer’ meals, BBQs, and even service projects. Firesides are another great activity. If they have kids, they may also be interested in youth activities during the week.

You’ll notice that all of these points involve being brave and opening your mouth. It isn’t as difficult as you think, and the benefit you can bring to someone else’s life can be profound. As active members, we don’t depend on the welcome-ness of people at church to keep us coming back. For visitors of other faiths, recently moved-in families, or others returning to church after time away, a welcoming environment can be very encouraging and helpful.

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Faith

Come Listen to a Prophet’s Voice

General Conference

If you’ve been following us for awhile, you’ve probably worked out that we are Mormons, or more properly, members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. If you haven’t worked that out yet, Hello! When we talk with others about religion, questions often arise about the difference between what we believe and what mainstream Christianity believes. Before I start, you can be assured that we believe in Jesus Christ as our Savior, and rely upon his mercy and grace. Though there are significant differences between what we believe and mainstream Christianity, EVERY difference can be attributed back to one basic difference: We believe that God has called prophets on the earth today, in the same way that he called Moses and Noah (and others) in the past.

We believe that God has a prophet on the earth today, teaching us with the same power, authority, and urgency as Moses. What would a prophet of God tell us today, to guide us in our lives? Twice a year, our church holds a worldwide conference, where we all tune in to listen to our Prophet, Thomas S. Monson, and other leaders speak to us. Oct 4-5, 2014 is our next conference.

Because the Internet is awesome, you can watch the entire conference online live (go here), or video archives later. The entire conference consists of 6 sessions: Two on Saturday, two on Sunday, a special session held for Women and Girls, and a special session held for Men and Boys. (The session for Women and Girls actually happened yesterday, and is already viewable online!)

If you pick one session to watch, choose 10AM Mountain Time, Sunday Morning, October 4th 2014 . The music during that session is always The Mormon Tabernacle Choir, and our Prophet will speak then as well. This meeting is the largest meeting we hold as a church, and a great way to sneak a peek into what we believe and the instruction we are given.

It is interesting to note that not all instruction given by a Prophet of God is dramatic. The instruction we need is rarely something like Leave Egypt! or I’m going to build a boat! but instead reminders of instruction already given, and small but important ways for us to follow the Gospel of Christ. In the most recent instruction from our Prophet, he cautioned us to be careful with our finances and debts. What will he tell us this general conference? Tune in and find out!

Also know that we are more than willing to talk about religion and what we believe. If you have questions something you hear in the conference, or about anything really, reach out to us and we’d be happy to talk either publicly or privately. We will answer ANY question, as long as it is sincere. We love discussions, but find arguments to be unpleasant and non-productive.

We are excited for this opportunity t0 listen to our leaders! Although we are unsure of exactly where exactly we will be, we will definitely be making it a priority to listen!