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We’ve Been Traveling for 1000 Days, and Why That Doesn’t Matter

When we originally left our sticks and bricks house in July of 2013 we had no idea what was in store for us. I woke up that morning and knew we were on the brink of something amazing, but the reality has been far more grand than either of us imagined.

Today we have officially been on the road “full time” for 1000 days. That’s kind of a big deal. Sometimes its hard to remember what life was like before Airstream travel. For our youngest, Cara, its been almost half her life. We’ve camped at 308 places, earned 105 Jr. Ranger Badges, and towed the Airstream over 600 hours and 33,344 miles.

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What I realized this weekend, however, is that the numbers don’t matter. We could be on the road for 6 months or 6 years and the most important question would be not, “How long have you been on the road?” but “How has being on the road changed you?”  Our goal has never been to see every state (we don’t even have a sticker map) but to spend time together as a family in meaningful ways.

We’ve taught our kids to backpack, mountain bike, paddle, adjust to uncertainty, overcome fear, and most importantly to let go of material things while embracing experiences and relationships.  We are more patient. We love the peace and quiet of being out in nature. Saying “no” is okay and defending family time is perfectly acceptable.  Things are just things, and simple is better. I really like to mountain bike. Sam loves to work on programming projects with the kids. We all love to hike. I love to hear my kids breathing while they sleep at night. Establishing a solid, positive relationship with our kids while they are young could be the most important thing we ever do.

There have been sacrifices and our life is not all rainbows and unicorns. We’ve cried. We’ve been angry and frustrated. We’ve had important things break. That one time, we literally set our brakes on fire. We’ve had deep doubts, unbelievable success, unexpected detours, and tears of both joy and frustration.

I wouldn’t change a thing.

This adventure of ours isn’t about the road, it is about our family and how we’ve grown.

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My Planned Schedule for Powder Mountain Outessa & What To Pack

d2a29d1b5da1482157f18a250fa171efPre-travel I worked as a professional wedding and lifestyle family photographer. About twice a year I would attend a conference or a workshop for personal and business development. These ranged from 1 day local seminars to weekend long retreats where I would board a plane and travel to wherever the workshop was located. I loved these events. Not only for the education and learning (turns out I learn best in a classroom!) but also for the solo time. Being a mom, wife, housekeeper, school teacher, and cook can get exhausting and every once in awhile it was nice to have a break. Sam has always been super supportive of my interests and I never had any problems leaving him in charge for a few days while I was gone. In fact, I think the kids actually prefer it when mom leaves for a bit and they get some solid time with dad.

Since we started traveling, I haven’t left at all. It blew me away when Sam and I actually figured that out a few days ago. Not that he’s been gone a lot either, but at least 2-3 times over the last 3 years he’s been gone overnight or even for a few days at a work conference or a client meeting. We did go on a cruise together last February when my mom flew to Florida to take care of the kids, and I’ve definitely had a few hours to myself semi-consistently, but never overnight alone.

I suppose its a good thing that this is the year we decided to pick back up our habit of attending conferences. It was about time. Sam has been missing his regular attendance at a few geek conferences, so we’ve planned our schedule to accommodate those. But what about me? Since I am no longer working in the photographer realm I wanted something a bit more….outdoorsy.

Enter: The Outessa Summit.

It was the perfect solution. 3 days of guilt free outdoor activity, good food, networking with brands and meeting other like-minded women? Sign me up!

Now that its here and I’m headed out on a plane, I couldn’t be more excited. I need this. I need time to myself to think, to meditate, to just be me. Add in some mountain biking and rock climbing instruction and I am going to be one happy camper!

Here is my planned itinerary for the 3 days at Powder Mountain Ski Resort near Ogden, UT

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Really I just want to mountain bike All. The. Things. But I figure that part of pushing boundaries is trying new things. Uh, campfire cooking? I’ve never done anything beyond Tin Foil Dinners. I am most certainly not a runner but I found myself signing up for a headlamp trail run because it sounded like a good time. One last minute addition is Advanced Rock Climbing on Sunday and I’m scared to death! Rock Climbing is one of those sports that I desperately want to not be terrified of. I plan to make this a weekend of education, fun, last minute changes to the schedule, and falling into my sleeping bag exhausted but happy every night.

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There are options for accommodations, and I chose to stay at Camp Outessa and bring my own camping gear, rather than stay in the ski lodge. Planning to bring my camping gear and clothes, I naturally decided to throw them into my Deuter Backpack ACT 45+10 (affiliate link on REI). I figured it’d probably easier (and a whole lot more fitting) than trying to bring a duffel (no room for rolling suitcases in the Airstream). I also have an entire flight ALL to myself so I wanted my laptop to get photos edited and do some writing. Throw that into my messenger bag with my camera, wallet, and a good book to read in the Eno Hammock Lounge and I think I’m set.

They’ve told us to plan for colder weather, so I have both pairs of my REI Sahara Convertible pants, two long sleeve synthentic shirts, two short sleeve shirts (one synthetic, one comfy cotton), plus my thermals. We always dress in layers anyway so I have my riding jacket with vented sleeves, my puffy vest, a rain shell, and a beanie. I packed my swimming suit just in case I decided to follow through with my SUP class. We just got sent our new Teton Sports Mountain 2 Man Tent (going to be quite roomy with just me inside!) which is much better than packing our 14 lb 5 person tent! Chacos for kayaking, hiking shoes for everything else, mountain biking clothes, gym capris for both rock climbing and yoga, Shower bag and toiletries, plus a camp towel. I’ve heard we are getting an Osprey day pack as part of our swag bag, so I’m not packing a day bag, but I did throw in a Platypus bladder to put in it when I get there. Last minute I added our Luminoodle for light in the tent and I’m also bringing a headlamp.

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I just hope I have room for all the swag I’ve heard they are going to give us.

There are still day passes available, so if you can’t swing the whole weekend but want to come check it out for a day please come! I can’t wait. Use code Friend50 for $50 off!

Pick up a Day Pass Here.

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A Month in Manti, Utah for the Mormon Miracle Pagaent

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Travel Dates: May 28 – Jun 26, 2016

In two and a half years of travel we have never stayed in the same spot for a month. Ever. Our typical stay lasts anywhere from one night, to our previous record of two weeks. Lately we have been aiming for 7-10 days, but an entire 30 days seemed a little intimidating. Luckily, we had the Mormon Miracle Pageant to keep us plenty busy. We posted back in June about our decision to participate in the pageant, but we thought a summary of our time there was in order – both for those that are interested in participating in Pageant with their families someday, and those that want to see what staying stationary can be like for full time travelers!

The Campground

We stayed at the Temple Hill RV resort just north of the Manti Temple in a water/20amp electric site. The owners were great and the campground was very shaded (which was our saving grace!). Sanpete County is known for its ATV trails, so we had quite a lot of company on the weekends with warriors and their toys. Once pageant performances began, the campground filled up more regularly, but still never fully reached capacity. The sites were tight enough though that we had a few mornings where our neighbors were up long before us and we didn’t enjoy the noise in such close quarters. If we were to do it again, however, we’d make sure to sign up early enough to get a spot with 30amp hook ups at the local RV Park. Not having air conditioning and 100+ degree temperatures were a terrible combination. We all get a little irritable, lazy, and fairly non motivated when it gets that warm outside (and inside!). We had 20amp electrical and water, but no sewer which meant hitching up and dumping our tanks everyday 6-8 days.

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The RV park has a pool, but for the first two weeks it was not heated and was COLD. The kids jumped in once or twice but they never lasted long. Our last week, however, they installed (or fixed) the water heater and we spent some long days at the pool to get out of the heat! It was nice having laundry on site, and during the week we felt we could spread out a little since there were few campers in our area.

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Activities Other Than Pageant

For the first week and a half, we still managed to sneak in some school. The kids had subjects they were finishing up from last year (ahem, math!) but we were pretty lazy about it. With rehearsals not starting until 5:oo pm most nights we had plenty of time during the day to clean, work on school, and have Sam get his paid work in. Once things heated up with late dress rehearsals and performances, however, we gave up and just called it “summer”. Everyone was too tired by then to even think about school.

Since the campground pool was too cold, the kids and I took one day to visit the local Manti community pool which was fun but also disappointing because there was no diving board for the older two. Poor things. I also signed the kids up for 2 weeks (8 days, Mon-Thur over two weeks) of swimming lessons at Snow College up in Ephraim. In hindsight I’m glad I signed them up for the 11:20 am spot, because that last week we had dress rehearsals and performances which meant we didn’t crack our eyelids in the morning until at least 9:30am. Rachel and Andrew have done swimming lessons previously, but Cara never has. Despite their initial insistence that they could swim just fine, by the time lessons rolled around all three were excited. Rachel and Andrew worked on their diving and stroke technique, while Cara blew her teacher away with how fast she learned to dive for objects and swim the front crawl.

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Shortly after arriving, we took a drive up to nearby Maple Canyon to check out a Box Canyon hike. We also were able to watch some of the rock climbers and decided we needed to come back the following week with our gear and try it out. I climbed down there long ago in college and remembered it being fairly beginner friendly. We went up the following Monday for Family Night and even brought the daughter of a friend (okay, for all purposes she’s considered a niece) and introduced her to rock climbing. Unfortunately the next time we went up to climb the routes were busy with Boy Scouts and we had to bail.

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Our first Sunday evening (June 5th) we took a drive up Ephraim Canyon to get out of the heat. We checked out the campground, but our biggest find was an awesome boondocking spot we find off a forest service road. The following weekend (June 12-13) we towed our trailer up there Sunday after church and spent a blissfully cool couple of nights camping up in the forest. We still had to drive down for swim lessons, but the cooler temperatures were worth it! We had an epic campfire dinner one night and were also joined by Sam’s brother who was driving through the area on his way to Idaho from California.

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We celebrated my birthday (June 16th) with waffles for breakfast, a climbing trip turned canyon picnic up Maple Canyon (boy scouts, remember?), dinner with my parents and friends and donuts & ice cream for dessert!

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Father’s Day we left the trailer and drove up to Sandy, Utah to attend church and have dinner with my family. We then spent two nights at our friend’s house in Lehi where the kids played, and played, and played some more with their best friends. It was a fabulous break from the heat in Manti and we always love seeing our friends!

During performances we had both family and friends come down for pageant. It was so fun to see everyone! When my parents came down, in addition to celebrating my birthday we also visited the Ephraim cemetery where my dad’s ancestors are buried. Apparently “Madsen” is one of THE families in the Ephraim/Manti area.

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We were also surprised with a visit from Sam’s parents! They flew from Oakland, CA to Salt Lake City, UT and then drove down. It had been months since we’d seen them last and we always love spending time with them! Our last afternoon together we spent a few hours at Palisades State Park canoeing, swimming, and generally horsing around.

DSCN7405 We took one night off during pageant performances to watch the entire thing. Many of the other participants were surprised we had never seen it before and encouraged us to do so. We bought dinner from the vendors and had fun hanging out on the lawn before the show started. We loved watching it and we became even more excited for our final performances afterwards.
IMG_20160623_211929416-01 We had plans to visit the local libraries, but turns out the kids had enough books to keep them busy for the month. Once pageant performances started it really took up more time than we had originally thought and didn’t have the energy for much else!

Pageant Rehearsals

My 31st – June 4th was our first week of rehearsals and it was a lot of fun. The pageant directors put out a master schedule and ran through various scenes from 5:00-9:30pm every night. All of these rehearsals were in the local church building and not actually over on temple hill. This was great because we were indoors, out of the sun, and it was air conditioned.

Many of the principal parts had rehearsals in the side rooms while the larger groups practiced in the gymnasium. Rachel, Andrew and I attended the square dancing rehearsals where we learned a simple Virginia Reel for one of the Pioneer Scenes. Sam would bring Cara over a little later as we went into rehearsals for some of our other parts. We had originally intended to not have Sam and Cara in the Pioneer Scenes as they were much later in the pageant, but we learned at our first rehearsal that we needed a man from our handcart group to join the Mormon Battalion so they started coming to rehearsals as well. We figured we’d just see how she did once we got into those late nights!

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Our second week (June 7-11) we started rehearsing on “the hill” and were able to practice with our handcarts as Pioneers. I don’t think we realized how steep that hill actually was. It was a workout to run up and down it and even to pull those handcarts across! By this time we were able to have a sense of the show, how things worked, and where we were supposed to be. All the seasoned participants kept telling us that “it’ll all make sense once you get on the hill” and it really does! Nothing quite prepares you for the magnitude of the stage than actually being on it. We also were given costumes this week. There is a dedicated costume building on the property and we were able to try on our costumes, make sure everything fit properly and then we left them there to check out every night.

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These were hard weeks for me as I had a lot of trouble balancing early rehearsals with dinner. Some days we’d have an early dinner and take snacks, but everyone would come home starving at 8:30pm. Other nights we’d snack before we went and have a quick dinner when we got home at 8:30. I still don’t think we ever figured out a schedule that really worked, but we survived. We definitely did not eat as healthy for the month but luckily we burned a lot of calories going up and down the hill!

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Friday June 10th and Saturday June 11th were run throughs. We ran through the entire pageant from 5:30-7:30pm, and then everyone was fed dinner, we changed into costumes and we ran through the 1st half on Friday and the 2nd half on Saturday in costume with lights. The kids were extremely excited to practice in costume as it made everything more real. Some of the costumes they use are pretty elaborate and it was fun to see the different characters!

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Our Parts

As a family we mostly participated in large group scenes. These were fun as we could all be together during rehearsals and performances. There were three main ones we did: Harvest, Christ in America, and Pioneers.

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As Joseph Smith translates the Book of Mormon, scenes are shown of the people that once lived in North America.One of the story threads of the pageant is about a righteous man called Captain Moroni who led the Nephi people through wars with the wicked Lamanites. In Harvest, we celebrate his return from war, and its a colorful scene with many of the young girls (including Rachel) twirling ribbons. Unfortunately the people at that time were plagued with prosperity and many turned to wealth and riches and hardened their hearts towards the teachings of Christ (Sam and I alternated nights going “wicked” and pretending to throw rocks and shoot arrows at the prophet Samuel the Lamanite).  From there we repented, and looked to Nephi as a prophet who foretold the coming of Christ to visit the people.

Upon Jesus’ death in Jerusalem, the people in North America experienced extreme earthquakes, floods, lightning and other tumultuous storms. On stage this meant a lot of running around in the dark with fireballs being lit by the stage crew. It was one of our favorites! At first Andrew insisted we hold his hand so he wouldn’t get lost, but by the last night everyone was comfortable to just run around by themselves. I loved how much confidence my kids gained through this experience!

We also participated in the “Christ in America” scene from the Book of Mormon where Jesus Christ visits the indigenous people of North America after his resurrection. This was my favorite scene and we were encouraged to really put ourselves there as if we were seeing the Savior. One night I was able to walk up to touch his hands and his feet, and another night Andrew and Cara were able to sit on his lap as he taught and blessed the children. While there, Jesus Christ organized His church and called Twelve Apostles, just as he had in Jerusalem. Sam started out as a “fill-in” Apostle, but eventually just planned to fill the role every night since the regulars didn’t seem to show up.

DSCF5894After Christ in America, we exited the stage and changed into our Pioneer costumes. Once the narrative reaches the end of the Book of Mormon where Moroni (not the same as Captain Moroni) buries the plates for Joseph Smith to find, the pageant returns to Joseph Smith and eventually the martyrdom of Joseph & Hyrum Smith and the exodus of the Saints from Nauvoo. As Pioneers we pulled our handcarts across the hill, participated in a campfire scene (that’s where the square dancing came in), and journeyed from Salt Lake City to Manti with the protagonist, Robert Henshaw, who is killed by Native Americans. What follows is a beautiful depiction of life after death and the fact that our families truly can be together forever after we die.

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Looking back over our experience, I will admit its one of the most difficult experiences we’ve had as a family. Late nights, following a schedule, managing expectations, and just plain working hard were all involved, but it was definitely worth it! We feel closely bonded as a family having shared this experience, and our kids are already scheming for when we can participate again! Andrew wants to be a Nephite Warrior and Rachel can’t wait to be a Lamanite Dancer and an angel. We are so grateful we were put by the Lord in a time and place that this worked out so easily for us to do together. Our testimonies of Joseph Smith and the restoration of Christ’s church on the Earth were strengthened and we made many friends that will hopefully last a lifetime!

Up Next: Moochdocking in Idaho With a Surprise Family Visit

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What? Summer is OVER?

DSCF6597Our cousins went back to school yesterday so naturally we had to head out so as not to be distracting. I still can’t believe school has started. Okay, okay, its been going for at least a month in places like Arizona, but that doesn’t make me feel any better. I swear summer keeps getting shorter and shorter.

The kids have been excited to start their new curriculum for about a month, so I gave in and we “started” school today as well. You know, since we haven’t even finished our History book from last year and we pretty much do school year round.

On the upside, starting school today did give us a normal schedule. Looking back over our summer Sam and I are amazed at how irregular our life has been. We were in Manti for the whole month of June participating in the pageant (still have a blog post coming on that soon). July was all about attempting to see cousins in Driggs, ID while recovering from pageant and trying to figure out what our life will look like for the next year as we transition into more of a hybrid – travel family instead of a full time travel family. Turns out that looks a whole lot like living in a condo for part of the year, but we’ll have more on that in a bit as well.

After that we had the quick jog to California for our Curren family reunion at Camp Noyo (blog post about our time there 2 years ago), hanging with cousins at their house afterward for the weekend and then bam! Summer is over.

We didn’t even go backpacking. Honestly, I feel a little robbed.

We are now headed up the Oregon Coast for a bit, will loop through Northern Idaho and Bozeman to see friends, check on said condo in Driggs, and then head south for the winter (and some backpacking!). We are excited for cooler temperatures and a slower pace of life. I got my workout in today, the kids did school, Sam easily worked a bit extra, and Rachel even made cookies.

So while this summer was a little crazy and my head is still spinning, we have a lot to look forward to over the next few months. Can’t wait.

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“Home” as a Routine Not a Place

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We spent almost the entire month of June in Manti, Utah participating in the Mormon Miracle Pageant. As we were packing up to leave I had the overwhelming desire to go “home.” Since we leave full time in our Airstream, our home is always with us and I had to stop for a minute and think about what exactly that meant.

We are comfortable in our 188 sq feet of space. Some days it feels a little tight, but given the option we’d rather sleep in our beds over staying inside someone else’s house. We cook, clean, work, do school, and all other normal home-like activities in our Airstream and none of that had really changed while we were in Manti. Well, except maybe the cooking part. It was just too dang hot to even fry eggs for breakfast.

So if our living accommodations hadn’t changed, where was this longing for “home” feeling coming from? As Sam and I talked it over we realized what we were missing were our normal routines. Pageant was a lot more time consuming than we had original thought, so there has been a noticeable lack of school work, exercise, eating healthy, outdoor exploration, blogging, and Airstream improvement projects over the last month. We’ve been going to bed long past midnight and having breakfast at 10am. What we were really missing was just our normal every-day life.

I’ve always believed that we can make any place feel like home  – that its more of an attitude, a sense of belonging for our kids, and a comfortable pattern that we live by rather than a particular dwelling. Our experience this last month reinforced that idea. While changing things up (or going on vacation) can be fun for awhile, we need to have boring, normal days just like anyone else!