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Daily Life Musings of Sam

Sam vs. Jury Duty – Tips for Full Time Travelers

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I spent a few days this last week as a member of a jury in a criminal trial. This is my second time serving in a jury in spite of only being summoned to service twice. I guess I have one of those faces.

Jury duty is one of the more painful civic duties for a full-time traveler. It requires being in a specific place at a specific time, just for the chance you are selected. If you are self-employed (as I am) then you also lose out on work during your service.

Being in a jury is an inconvenience, but it is educational. It also gave me more confidence in our legal system as I observed some of the inner workings of our judicial system.

In my case, the jury ruled not guilty of the serious charges against the defendant. Everyone on the jury thought something happened but there was not enough evidence to remove reasonable doubt. While the accused may have been guilty (of something) and gone free, we avoided the horror of convicting an innocent person.

I’m glad that it’s hard to convict somebody of a crime, and that we are innocent until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt.

Tips for Jury Selection for Full-Time travelers or otherwise busy folk:

Being excused from jury service is rare. Most excuses result in a delay in your service, not being excused all together.

You can shift your assigned jury time. The court knows that people have obligations and are willing to work around them. If you have a family reunion or a work conference, they will be happy to schedule your service after you return. Your jury paperwork will include instructions on how to notify the court of any such issues you have. Expect to receive another notice soon after your conflicting event.

You might be able to ask for a specific dates. Full-time travelers rarely return ‘home’, but you might be planning a trip through your home state sometime soon anyway. I delayed once because of a family reunion. When I received another notice shortly after that, and I called the jury clerk at the number listed on my summons to explain our situation. The jury clerk was both cheerful and happy to work with me, and assigned me to the week we already planned to be in town visiting family.

Even if you receive jury summons, you might not be selected for the jury. The jury selection process takes about a half-day. If you are not selected, you are usually done with your jury service for a few years. Jurors are selected in a random order. The computer system assigns you a juror number and you are selected in order unless excluded. Valid reasons for exclusion include knowing anybody involved or having a family member convicted of a similar crime. High numbers are less likely to be selected.

You will be told the expected length of the trial during the jury selection process. If you have scheduled travel, know the dates in advance. The court will ask about conflicts for the trial period, and you might be excused.

Be ready if you decide to delay. When I was first summoned, my juror number (called a reporting number on the paperwork) was in the 20s. When I delayed, my juror number was quite low. After my request for the specific dates, I was juror number 1.  Juror number 2 had also asked for a delay of one week. With low numbers, we were more likely to be selected for the jury unless we were excused for some reason. Your local court system might well run things differently, but that’s how it rolls here in Utah.

Go, and enjoy your jury service. In spite of the inconvenience I really enjoyed my time. The ‘commute’ on the local mass transit system down to the court was a nice change of pace. I learned more about the criminal court system and enjoyed the time with the other jurors. Being a good citizen is important, and I was pleased to be support our legal system in such an important role.

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Hiking Oregon

9 Family Friendly, Adventure Stops Along the Oregon Coast {Plus a Few Bonus Activities}

Planning a family vacation to the Oregon Coast? This beautiful piece of the country is not to be missed! Check out our post for road trip ideas and discover tide pools, crabbing, flying kites and other things to do with your kids while you are there!

For anyone that hears “coast” and immediately dons their swimming trunks, the Oregon Coast may come as a bit of a shock. There are beautiful beaches, but the vibe is definitely more rugged than its southern California counterpart.  Crashing, intense waves, cold water, and wind can make swimming a less than ideal activity, but no fear! There are plenty of other activities to keep you busy.

We’ve been along the Oregon Coast twice now. The first time was in October of 2014. We had just completed a loop of the California Coast, Crater Lake, Portland, Vancouver BC, Olympic National Park, and Whidbey Island. Our goal was to do head down entire coast, but we made it to Lincoln City around Halloween and decided we’d have enough rain and headed inland.

This year we skipped the California Coast and headed north for the stretch of Oregon between Brookings and Lincoln City to fill in our missing gap. We timed the weather a bit better in August when it was slightly warmer and less wet. The Oregon Coast is a good 20 degrees cooler than other cities inland (100 degrees in Medford, 65 at Cape Blanco). We were happy to don our sweatshirts and beanies and enjoy the cooler, dry temps!

We also wanted a repeat of our crabbing experience and our kids needed no other reason to head up the coast! Even though we overlapped on some of the cities, we picked different places to stay just to mix things up.

In our recap, I’ll go south to north and detail some of our favorite spots. Hopefully you can work some of these into your next adventure trip to Oregon!

Camp & Explore Cape Blanco State Park, Port Orford

This state park is hands down our favorite along the coast. While rugged and beautiful, I also felt it was one of the quieter parks we visited. This could be due to the smaller campground (only 50 sites compared to over 200 at some parks), or that the largest nearby city is Port Orford which is, in fact, not large at all.

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This park has beautiful views of the coast, a quiet campground, lighthouse tours, and a beautiful sandy beach perfect for an afternoon of playing in the sand.

Fly a Kite at South Beach State Park

South Beach State Park was a little overcrowded for our liking. The state park has a huge campground and its very popular (busy) during the summer and weekends in the fall. However, we had a fantastic evening of kite flying and lounging on the beach watching the sun go down. The beach is so large that we were able to carve out a little, sandy spot and thoroughly enjoy ourselves.

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There are kite festivals up and down the coast. The vast open beaches and windy afternoons just beg for kite flying. Pre-travel my dad gifted me a stunt kite as a birthday present and we’ve packed it in the truck ever since. We’ve had some epic kite flying on the Oregon Coast both years we’ve been there.

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If a stunt kite isn’t your speed, we also recommend this Prism Bora 2 Single-Line Kite on Amazon. Its great fun and super easy to fly!

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Tidepooling at Yaquina Head Natural Area, Agate Beach

Tidepooling is an outdoor family adventure that all ages can enjoy. Most state parks will have a tide schedule, and you’ll just want to time your visit with low tide. The ocean recedes, leaving pockets of water among the rocks where you can see all sorts of ocean life. Wear good shoes (often the rocks are sharp), or some good sturdy sandals in the event of getting wet.

Not to be confused with Yaquina Head State Park, the Natural Area is run by a branch of the NPS which means your annual pass gets you in for free!

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We parked at the Visitor Center as we were warned the parking lot near Cobble Beach fills up quickly. It was a short, yet beautiful walk on a paved path then down some stairs to the beach.

Cobble Beach is aptly named as its compiled of round basalt rocks that are actually quite difficult to walk across. With the tide out we were able to see small crabs, orange sea stars, purple sea urchins, and green anemones. There were volunteers walking about the pools available to answer questions.

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Hike Cascade Head, Lincoln City

Remember all the rain I mentioned back in 2014? Yeah. We desperately needed a hike and when the weather forecast looked even remotely dry, we hit the trails. We found a 6 mile round trip trail to Cascade Head and headed out. Our efforts were rewarded with a muddy, damp, trail, lots of elk, and amazing views. Full blog post here.

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Lincoln City also has a great children’s section in their public library, and the community center pool had a rope swing. Epic.

Cape Trail at Cape Lookout State Park, Pacific City

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This was another hike born out of desperation to hit the trail. The weather was not ideal, but for the Oregon Coast we managed with what we had. We pulled rain shells over our puffy vests and set out prepared for mud.

Ideally you’ll hike this trail on a sunny day and have absolutely amazing views, but our goal that day was more simple: Hike more than 5 miles. As we set the bar pretty low, the fog covered coast didn’t bother us. In fact, it was magical in its own way.

Play Games on the Beach, Pacific City

We stayed at the Pacific City Thousand Trails RV Resort while we were in the Pacific City area. It made a decent base camp, all the state parks were booked over the weekend, and it was honestly the most “campground” like RV park we’ve ever been to. Plus, we were invited to stay for free. Can’t really beat that.

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One of my favorite parts about staying there was that the beach was just a short walk away. The kids, however, decided it would also be fun to drive out so one night we took some games and spent a chilly evening playing in the sand. There are a lot of games that are great for the beach – two of our recent favorites are this backpacking Bocce set from REI (we bought it), and the OgoSport OgoDisk Set on Amazon (we were sent one to test out).  Both are fun with kids and totally beach compatible!

Crabbing at Kelly’s Brighton Marina, Rockaway Beach

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Our first experience crabbing back in 2014 was so epic-awesome its forever become one of our favorite experiences. When we were route planning and considering the Oregon Coast this hit pretty high on the to-do list. We are not associated with Kelly’s in any way, but they are hands down the best place to crab. Where else for $100 can you rent a boat, crab traps, and bait for 2 hours, then have them cook anything you catch? I dare you to find a more friendly, helpful bunch than the guys that work here.

Dune Jumping at Nehalem Bay State Park, Nehalem

The wind along the coast creates some pretty spectacular dunes. Fortunately for our kids, dad is an excellent dune jumper and loves to show them how its done. The kids also hauled out the sand toys and snuggled down between a couple of dunes to play for an hour.

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The campground is also well done. They have quite a few walk-up sites so if you get there mid-week you have a good chance of snagging a spot. Our kids loved to the climb the gnarled trees all over the campground, the playground was decent, and the little field in the middle of the park was great for frisbee and kicking around a soccer ball.

The dunes do a great job of sheltering the campground from the wind. We were totally fine, even though it was crazy windy next to the water.

Explore the Wreck of the Peter Iredale, Astoria

Astoria is a great city, and nestled nearby on the peninsula is Fort Stevens State Park. With a large campground, we easily found a site in the off season and settled down in the fall rain.

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There is a paved trail from the campground out to the beach where you can see the wreck of the Peter Iredale, a four-masted steel barque sailing vessel. It ran ashore in 1906 and was abandoned. The shipwreck is one of the most accessible along the coast so its a popular tourist spot.

On our third attempt to see the shipwreck of the Peter Iredale, we finally had decent enough weather to brave the beach without getting blown over. While smaller than we expected, the shipwreck back lighted by the sunset was quite a sight!

Nearby there’s also Lewis & Clark National Historic Park (earn those Jr. Ranger Badges!) and the Astoria column (check out our video). We also ate great pizza at Saraha Pizza in downtown.

Bonus Tourist Stops:

You can’t go hiking EVERY day (unfortunately) so mixing up a few of the “must sees” around shredding the trails are a good idea. Here are 5 of our favorite tourist stops as an added bonus:

Join the Slug Club, South Beach State Park

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It really is a thing as crazy as its sounds. In order to join the slug club, you need to LICK a banana slug. Take a photo and send it to the rangers at South Beach State Park as they have a whole wall dedicated to this craziness!

Cape Blanco Lighthouse Tour

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Many people hit the Oregon coast to see the beautiful lighthouses. We loved the lighthouse at Cape Blanco and the tour was very informal, but informative. Volunteers are stationed inside the main room and at the top where the light is. They entertained us with history and facts about the Fresnel lens, the keepers, and the area. This lighthouse is the farthest west on the coast as well as the oldest operating light.

Double check the hours before you go, but they are generally April – October and cost $2 per adult. Kids 15 and under are free.

Taste of Hawaii Food Truck, Florence

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We timed our drive north from Cape Blanco to hit this food truck for lunch. It was so worth it. Fabulous Hawaain pulled pork & the kids downed their fish and chips in record time. We actually ordered too much food (had to get some Sushi too!) so we ate the rest for lunch the following day. The parking lot was plenty big for our rig and we could wait inside out of the cold until our food was ready.

Oregon Coast Aquarium, Newport

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We had a mix-up on this one – make sure you don’t Google “Aquarium near Newport” or you’ll end up with tickets for the one in Kentucky. No joke. Oops. The employees at both Aquariums said it happens all the time so it all turned out okay. Its not the largest or fanciest aquarium (and its rather pricey) but it was also Andrew’s birthday so we splurged.

We really enjoyed watching the puffins swim, and the otters were just so darn cute it was impossible not to love them. They also have a fantastic shark tunnel and a great touch-pool.

Tillamook Cheese Factory

Its not my favorite factory “tour” but it is interesting. There are basically large windows overlooking the factory area with plenty of videos and information boards. If you want to see the factory in action, just make sure you go during business hours. We went in the evening and there wasn’t much going on. Total bonus is the cheese sample line – feel free to do laps while you are there!

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Two years ago we just ate ice cream (a definite must!) but this last time we also had dinner. We started off with cheese curds, and fries, then Sam and I split a New  York Pastrami Melt, while the kids chowed down on Tomato Soup and their Turkey Pesto sandwich. It wasn’t the cheapest meal but it was definitely delicious! We went light on dinner as we also ate ice cream afterwards.

Eat Salt Water Taffy

Lincoln City as a fantastic outlet mall, and one of our favorite stops is Sweet Delights. They make the most AMAZING hand pulled, salt water taffy. This stuff tastes real and they have quite the selection of flavors. Hard to pick a favorite.

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Its definitely not an exhaustive list, but this will give you a good start! We love the Oregon Coast and plan to travel back many more times. Have you been? What’s your favorite spot?

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Outdoor Adventures

Our Family’s Top 20 Adventures from 3 Years Road Tripping America

Over the last three years of traveling full time in our Airstream, we’ve had some amazing adventures! We’ve been able to experience many different climates, cultures, and expand our outdoor adventure capabilities. We camp, mountain bike, backpack and paddle whenever we can in addition to just living regular life. While we haven’t made it to all the U.S. quite yet, we’ll get there eventually. In the meantime, here’s our Top 20 Adventures to date:

1. Camping in Dry Tortugas National Park (Florida)

We knew this would be epic before we even got there. Beautiful sandy beaches, snorkeling, dark night skies, amazing sunrises, and historic Fort Jefferson all made this particular New Year’s Eve camping trip one of our all time favorites.

2. Crabbing on the Oregon Coast (Oregon)

The Pacific Northwest is green and gorgeous and the Oregon coast has its own rugged appeal. On a whim we decided to rent a boat and crabbing gear from Kelly’s Brighton Marina just north of Tillamook. Although the clacking, wiggling crabs scared the kids at first, soon they were pulling crab pots out of the water like champions. Kelly’s then will help you cook and clean the crabs on the spot for a delicious seafood feast!

3. River Rafting in Jackson Hole (Wyoming)

We spent a month in Driggs, ID this summer and just over the Teton Pass is Jackson Hole and the Snake River. We hooked up with Lewis & Clark River Expeditions for a trip down an 8 mile section of some pretty exciting whitewater.

4. Backpacking on the Apostle Islands (Wisconsin)

Our first backpacking trip with the kids was on Stockton Island in the Apostle Islands National Seashore. We took a ferry from the mainland over to Stockton and spent 3 awesome days exploring the island, watching out for bears, and teaching our kids the ins and outs of packing and carrying gear in the backcountry.

5. Sledding & Backpacking on White Sands (New Mexico)

Our first winter on the road the kids were missing Utah and the snow, but we managed to find something to sled on at White Sands National Monument in New Mexico. We rented sleds from the Visitor Center and spent a few hours sledding down the gypsum sand hills. Not quite as wet and cold as snow, but we had a blast! Learn more.

6. Kayaking with Manatees (Florida)

Manatees are the most gentle, benign sea creatures we’ve seen and swimming in a crystal clear spring with hundreds of them was magical! We were able to rent kayaks from Hunter’s Kayaks nearby who also transported our boats, paddles, and life jackets down to the launch area for us. We had a leisurely paddle to the spring entrance, tied up our boats and swam into the warm spring water.

7. Boat Tour on Crater Lake (Oregon)

Crater Lake National Park has boat tours that explore the surface of the lake inside the crater, as well as drop you off on Wizard Island for a hike to the top. Although we were hesitant at first (mostly due to the price tag for a family of 5) we are so glad we booked the tour!

8. Cuyuna Mountain Bike Trail System (Minnesota)

Mountain Biking is my favorite outdoor activity and Minnesota surprised us with some epic trail systems despite not really having any “mountains”. Ironton is aptly named as the soil is filled with the mineral and is a deep red color. Not only was it great to ride, the scenery was beautiful.

9. Canoe the Buffalo National River (Arkansas)

We stumbled upon this gem of a park as we were searching for a place the kids could earn their 100th Jr. Ranger Badge. We volunteered for a park sponsored Earth Day clean up and paddled 7 miles of the Buffalo National River while picking up all sorts of garbage. Can’t wait to go back and paddle a larger section.

10. Hike/Camp at Hovenweep National Monument (Utah)

We met the nicest park ranger who took us down into the canyon to help kill an invasive species of plant. Since that’s not an option for most people, enjoy the hike around the rim of the canyon while viewing the Native American Ruins, and camp under the stars. During the spring the wildflowers are just incredible!

11. Chiricahua National Monument Hike (Arizona)

Not many people have heard of Chiricahua National Monument, but it will forever be one of our favorite parks. Thousands of volcanic ash hoodoos covered in green lichen dominate the unique landscape and there are plenty of hiking trails to enjoy the scenery. We opted to take the shuttle from the Visitor Center to the top of the scenic drive and hike the 10 miles back down along the Echo Canyon, Hailstone, Mushroom Rock, Big Balanced Rock, Heart of Rocks Loop and Sarah Deming trails.

12. Dune Climb at Sleeping Bear Dunes (Michigan)

We took 42 days to circle Lake Superior one summer and came down from the Upper Peninsula into the “mitten” of Michigan. Along the west coast of the state is Sleeping Bear Dunes and in one particular spot you can jump down the dunes to Lake Michigan. Be aware that it can take you 3 minutes to get down and over 30 minutes to climb back up.

13. Redwood National & State Parks (California)

Giant, ancient trees are spread throughout multiple sections of both California state and National Parks. We spent two weeks among the coastal giants one summer and enjoyed exploring the different ecosystems the park had to offer. From the Avenue of the Giants in Humboldt Redwoods State Park near Myers Flat  to Jedediah Smith Redwoods state park near Crescent City there is definitely plenty to explore!

14. Hike Hurricane Ridge (Washington)

Sometimes a “good” adventure can be just as ideal as the “perfect” adventure. Looking back on this hike we probably should have planned a little farther ahead and hiked dinner up with us, but even though it wasn’t perfect we still loved the views, the wildlife, and the scenery along Hurricane Ridge in Olympic National Park. Hiking back down around sunset was pretty magical and we managed to scrounge up a quick dinner once we got back to the campground after dark.

15. Camping at Angel Lake in the Ruby Mountains (Nevada)

Driving I-80 across Nevada you would never guess there was a hidden gem of a lake located high in the Ruby Mountains. Just south of Wells, NV Angel Lake is located at nearly 8500 feet elevation and the road to get there is windy, twisty, and there are seriously NO guardrails. Totally worth the heart pumping drive once you get up there. We enjoyed swimming in the alpine lake, the dark skies at night, and hiking to the waterfall.

16. Canoe the 9 Mile Pond in the Everglades

Far from swampy, damp forests of trees, the Everglades were more like open meadows in a forest. We enjoyed paddling a section of the 9 mile pond trail through mangroves and open glades.

17. Canoe or Kayak Lake Kabetogma – Voyageurs National Park (Minnesota)

We fell in love with Voyageurs National Park and can’t recommend this lesser known National Park to enough people. We rented canoes from a local outfitter and paddled out on the lake, but you can also take a water taxi to the peninsula, hike in and rent a canoe from the park service on one of the inland lakes. Remote backcountry & a paddle? Yes please! You can also hike Blind Ash Bay and pick blueberries and raspberries, or participate in the Old North Canoe program at one of the many visitor centers.

18. Walk Across the Mississippi River (Minnesota)

Hard to imagine the mighty Mississippi River is only 18 feet across at the source. Located in Itasca State Park, MN we had a great evening swimming and jumping over the rocks. Learn more.

19. Hiking to Nevada & Vernal Falls – California

Definitely the longest and hardest hike we’ve done with kids. Totally worth it though. We had lunch at the top of Vernal Falls, a snack at the top of Nevada and hiked the John Muir Trail back down. I don’t think any of us could walk the next day. Learn more.

20. Mountain Bike in Bentonville, AR

People were surprised when I insisted I wanted to visit Arkansas to mountain bike. Not only do they have the most amazing pump track and skills park I’ve ever seen, but the trails are unreal. I can’t wait to go back.

These are only a fraction of the adventures we’ve been on, but they are definitely some of our favorites. What’s your best outdoor family activity and where?

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Musings of Sam

Teamwork and Bad Marriage Advice

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Perhaps the greatest dynamic in our marriage is teamwork. Without working together as a team, there is no sane way to manage a road trip that spans years. I don’t mean to say that Jess and I do everything together. We often split duties and spend our days doing very different things, but as a whole we try and keep our goals aligned and approach them as a team.

In church this week we had a lesson on preparing for and strengthening marriage. The lesson was in Elders Quorum (mormon speak for a group of 18 to 45ish year old men), so the class discussion involved mostly married, middle-aged men. I really enjoy Elders Quorum lessons, and discussing the Gospel of Christ together with other husbands and fathers is rewarding and motivating.

This lesson on marriage was no different, and I came away with some new thoughts and ideas on both the value of marriage and things I could do to improve my own.

Mixed in with the excellent advice was some downright terrible advice shared by the others in the class. I can’t fault these men directly, as this advice seems quite common in our culture.

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This is terrible advice, and I’ve heard it from many men over the span of decades. A few years ago, I heard a coworker share that advice with another soon-to-be-married young man at the same company.

“Steve!” I said, “That is terrible advice, and you don’t follow it either!”

Steve quickly admitted so with a laugh. Though I did call Steve on his words, I did hold my tongue in my church meeting, as I was unable to find a constructive way to share my thoughts at the time.

The perspectives offered by both parties in a marriage can bring value and insight. As a couple works together to understand the desires and points of view of each other, I believe they grow stronger. Disagreements are a natural result of two persons sharing a life. Seeking to understand our spouse and trying to understand what (and not who) is right will bring us closer together.

Advising someone to capitulate to their spouse in any disagreement is simply terrible advice.

Be a Team

Adventures in life are better when you have a great partner in those adventures. I believe marriage was designed to help us grow and learn together. Being united in our goals, patient with each other, and seeking to learn from each other and the world around us is vital to creating a strong team.

Now, anybody that knows me understands that I am not the perfect husband. These ideals I write of are my goals and, well, ideals. Even with the best goal in mind my execution ranges between imperfect and downright terrible. I hope my thoughts and encouragement are worthwhile anyway.

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Daily Life Mommy Diaries The Airstream

We’ve Been Traveling for 1000 Days, and Why That Doesn’t Matter

When we originally left our sticks and bricks house in July of 2013 we had no idea what was in store for us. I woke up that morning and knew we were on the brink of something amazing, but the reality has been far more grand than either of us imagined.

Today we have officially been on the road “full time” for 1000 days. That’s kind of a big deal. Sometimes its hard to remember what life was like before Airstream travel. For our youngest, Cara, its been almost half her life. We’ve camped at 308 places, earned 105 Jr. Ranger Badges, and towed the Airstream over 600 hours and 33,344 miles.

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July 2013 – Sept 2016

What I realized this weekend, however, is that the numbers don’t matter. We could be on the road for 6 months or 6 years and the most important question would be not, “How long have you been on the road?” but “How has being on the road changed you?”  Our goal has never been to see every state (we don’t even have a sticker map) but to spend time together as a family in meaningful ways.

We’ve taught our kids to backpack, mountain bike, paddle, adjust to uncertainty, overcome fear, and most importantly to let go of material things while embracing experiences and relationships.  We are more patient. We love the peace and quiet of being out in nature. Saying “no” is okay and defending family time is perfectly acceptable.  Things are just things, and simple is better. I really like to mountain bike. Sam loves to work on programming projects with the kids. We all love to hike. I love to hear my kids breathing while they sleep at night. Establishing a solid, positive relationship with our kids while they are young could be the most important thing we ever do.

There have been sacrifices and our life is not all rainbows and unicorns. We’ve cried. We’ve been angry and frustrated. We’ve had important things break. That one time, we literally set our brakes on fire. We’ve had deep doubts, unbelievable success, unexpected detours, and tears of both joy and frustration.

I wouldn’t change a thing.

This adventure of ours isn’t about the road, it is about our family and how we’ve grown.

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